Most people tend to think of Tinder as a hookup app. After all, it does facilitate something close to dating: you meet people, you make a quick connection, you go on a date and that’s that. But it’s beginning to become something more, somewhere that you go to talk to people and enjoy yourself. Somewhere you might find something serious. Sound good? Then read on, because we’re going to tell you all about how to take your game to the next level.
Don’t make it all about you. Find out things about her, who she is, what she likes, what she wants. If she seems like the type of girl you’re interested in, then you can think about how to take things up a notch
2. Talk to her like she’s more than just a hookup. This might seem obvious but so many men on apps treat women like they’re a London escort and nothing more. Whilst our girls understand your busy schedule and directness, the ladies looking for dates may very well not.
3. Take your time. You don’t need to rush straight into asking her to meet after 3 or 4 lines of conversation. Take a few days, build a rapport and an interest, then make your move. This will also help you work out how serious she is about it all.
4. Go somewhere nice for your date. Again, seems obvious but many Tinder meetups are just coffee before you head somewhere else. Try going for dinner or doing something romantic.
5. Notice the little things. Look at her profile and her pics. Find things that interest you, that you think she might want to talk about. They say the devil is in the detail but really it’s heaven that’s to be found in the small things most of us miss.
And most of all: enjoy yourself. There’s always another girl to swipe right for, or a London escort waiting if this one doesn’t work out.